Am Back and ITS A BOY!!!!!!

*covers face* I haven't posted anything in 7MONTHS......I have a really good reason which is that I was busy being pregnant. I know, but i had a miserable 9months. Couldn't do anything but lie in bed. But all i can say is that it was worth it in the end. I have been blessed with a beautiful healthy bouncing baby boy.

However i managed to follow up on other bloggers to entertain myself when i could bear to stare at a computer  screen, lol. Just wanted to share the news with you guys. 

This space is definitely going to become more active. Will try not to become one of those boring mums which is what me and the hubs have found ourselves doing. oooouuhhing and aaahhing over every little thing he does. SMH. lol. We are definitely fighting to keep our hip-ness.

I saw you today

I saw you today and i fell in love with you. Am so sorry you had to be disturbed, but that was the only way to see you. You  looked happy and very energetic, like you knew i was watching, you put on quite a show. It was very cute. Wanted to watch you all day but my time was up. I will check up on you in a little while to see how you're doing. wish you could have told me the things you like and dont like so i can avoid them. it seems to upset you. Will keep trying not to upset you as i suffer when your upset. see you soon my love.

Quarter Life Crisis

Today in my Cosmo Magazine, I found the diagnosis for the panic and Anxiety attack i have been having for a long while now. Quarter Life Crisis QLC is an anxiety for the future which is the opposite of Mid Life Crisis MLC which focuses on the past. I have put myself under so much pressure to be successful before i am 40. And the thought that i just have 15 more years to reach that mark is making me panic.
Apparently 75% of women aged 26-30 are currently experiencing QLC. And can be caused by different things such not having kick started your career, your finances not what you want it to be or close, living condition, relationships and the killer little or non existent social life (which is also one of my problems).

One of the factors that fuels QLS is social networking. Where we are always comparing ourselves to 'friends' who only portray the positive things about them.
I no go lie, when i see what some of my " Facebook friends" are doing, like the jobs they have that take them all over the world, their exotic social life, it only makes me panic wondering when my own "thing will  kick off"
But according the the psychologist its healthy to worry at this stage, but not waste time worrying and try to live in the moment so you don't end up at 40-50yrs with MLC wondering where your life went (when you spent it worrying about the future).

the 1st to comment craze

Am i the only one who thinks its really weird for people to just comment on articles or blog post and just say "FIRST TO COMMENT" "AM FIRST" It really bugs me i dont know why...smh

Okay back to what has been happening in London for the past 3days. To me this is what happens when the power to bring up your kids the way you want has been taken away from parents by the government. Charity they say begins at home. If parents brought up their children well, half of this whole rubbish will not be happening. 

Cupcakes and everything nice

When i was growing up my mom used to always say that a woman must have skill whether its sewing, baking, cooking, or knitting. Something that will always come in handy to help bring in extra money needed for the home.           

I have finally decided to learn how to bake to come up with these amazing creations. Problem is i don't know where to learn it. I have been asking Madam Google but she has refused to answer me. I am looking for somewhere in London or Bedfordshire. So please if anyone knows where i can learn how to bake cakes, cupcakes and also learn how to decorate please contact me on fabulousglamour@ymail.com

I really want to learn how to make these beautiful thing...

Woman Unexpectedly Gives Birth.......she didn't know she was pregnant

Wonderful, this reminds me of a girl who was 8 and half month sold in secondary school and no one knew.

the uselessness of Actors Guild of Nigeria

People please can someone tell me what the aim, objectives and duties of this society called Actors Guild of Nigeria is? Or am i the only one who thinks they are useless. All i have heard them do is ban actors and actresses for ridiculous reasons. That organization should be a union for all Nollywood actors instead it has become an avenue for old retched has been actors the likes of Segun Arinze and Ejike Asiegbu who have turned it into an avenue of power for themselves. You can imagine banning an actress Ini Edo from making movies for a whole year just because 'she dresses provocatively' or was rude to you, in the case of Yvonne Nelson in Ghana.
If an actor is difficult to work with then it is up to the producer of the movie to decide if they want her in their movie or not, i dont see why the president of the Actors Guild should put a ban on an actress who was rude to him. In the Hollywood we are all copying, Charlie Sheen recently cursed out his co star Jon Cryer and the producer of his show Two and a half Men and he wast banned from acting in Hollywood. But any one who wants to hire him is aware of how difficult it is to work with him.

Another Ridiculous one was some time ago the likes of Genevive Nnaji, Omotala J Ekeinde just to name a few were banned because they were expensive. Biko nu if mama Iyabo is selling her groundnut more expensive than mama Shade, wont you buy from mama Shade? Does that mean the market people will drive mama Iyabo out from the market because she is not selling at the same price with them. By the time her groundnut turns to a python and bites her in her shop she'll start selling at the same price with other market women.

Another one is banning grown men like Chinedu Ikhedieze and Osita Iheme  aka Aki & Pawpaw from acting adult roles because children imitate what they do. This is why movies are rated. if a movie is rated for adult viewing only and you buy it for your kids because you see aki and pawpaw on the cover doesn't that show how stupid you are.

So i don't see why copycat Nollywood and Gollywood  should be banning actors, its just another way we Africans like love the idea of power and being drunk with it and using it the way we want. Banning actors is used by these people controlling these guilds when they have a personal vendetta against an actor. Like someone said Africans can only copy but cant paste well.